Tuesday, May 8, 2018

ALL THOSE BARKING DOGS....

“YOUR DOG IS BARKING and I can't sleep.” I said. There I was, standing on my neighbor's porch at one o'clock in the morning. My hair was disheveled as I stood there with my bath robe that had been hastily slapped on. I just wanted to rest. I've had several neighbors occupy this rental home next to mine over the years, and each one had presented their own problems. Come to think of it, there was a dog involved every time...One renter had a dog that was threatening physical harm to every passerby (it was not on a leash) and would race to the edge of the front yard acting as though it would pounce on a person at any minute.

Then there was the renter's dog that was never let out of the back yard, never cared for, and physically died before it's time from neglect. The dog barked constantly seemingly begging for it's master's attention. It was a heartbreaking scene to behold every day. It was even left out in below freezing temperatures as it's owner had fallen asleep on his couch from a marijuana induced stupor. I remember pounding on his door to beg him to take his dog in as the marijuana smoke rolled out the front door when he answered it.

The current renter's dog barks frequently day and night. The dog is chained to the fence for hours out of fear that the dog will run off or be stolen like the last one was. Of course my bedroom window is right next to that fence. When this man and his family moved in there were immediate problems. The sound system in his vehicle was monstrous. The sound when turned up, would literally shake the ground, my windows, and the homes on either side. I literally could not hear my own television as I tried to listen to the days news and events. I stood outside on my porch one time just staring at the situation hoping a “message” would be sent to TURN DOWN THE MUSIC. For some time, week after week, as the neighbor pulled into his driveway, music blasted out that could be heard miles away.

The next day I reflected on the other dogs that seem to bark incessantly in our daily lives, and there are a lot of them. Maybe the recognition of them would cause us to rethink how we're handling life. They are the possible bad medical diagnosis, a car breaking down periodically, a continuing financial crisis that seems never ending, or just took much on “our plate” for a season. Is it the job situation that is a daily issue and irritant? I've tried so very hard to let it go...I desire to enter into the “rest” of God that He speaks of in His word and to not be so easily angered, upset, and devastated by life's events. Finding the peace of God under girding us continually in every situation presented by life does not come all at once. It's found in the journey. It is about trusting God in every daily circumstance. Trust is not born out of ease in this life, it is birthed through it's hardships.

My point is this. There are a lot of “barking dogs” in life aren't there? They just won't go away. They disrupt “our” world, bring chaos, unease, and hardship...sometimes it's severe. Those darn dogs make us feel out of control with no relief in sight. The inconvenience of the situation slams us like a hammer. Anger is usually the first line of defense when these barking dogs enter our sphere of life. How dare they turn our world upside down and cause such disruption! What we were doing before the sudden onslaught and interruption was important! The next line of defense it to try to take control of the situation. Maybe the “barking” will stop then. Finally, the last phase is a good cry to release the frustration all the barking has caused. It's a vicious cycle that is never ending.

All of this reflection began stirring within me after I walked away from my neighbor's door and I wonder...will his barking dog open a door relationally in conversation to reaching out in the love of Christ? We cannot let the “barking dogs” sway us away from trusting the love of God that reaches out to those around us who do not know Him.

“Great is the peace of those who love Thy law, and
nothing shall by any means offend them.”
(Psalm 119:165)